Seriously, he's so goshdarndeddumb it's not even funny. The day started innocently enough, I went to pick up the kids at the sitter yesterday and bent down to say hello to duckie (that's gonna be The Child's new name from now on on account of how he scrunches up his lips). He was sitting in his little chair. He turned and looked at me, then turned right back to laugh and smile at the sitter and her granddaughter. He didn't glance back at me. Even after I picked him up and put him in the carseat, it was as if he'd rather be somewhere else than with me. Just like his older brother. It hurt, but I didn't let them know that it did.
When I went home, I told The Hubby what happened and instead of a little sympathy or even a there, there; all I got was:
Well, now you know that you're not duckie's god.
WTH does that even mean and what does it have to do with the fact that as a mom it hurt that my child would prefer someone else over me???!?!?!?! Seriously, what the heck is his head filled with, eucalyptus leaves? I couldn't talk to him, just ignored him the rest of the evening. Thankfully he had to leave to do some work and I didn't have to be plagued with looking at his sorry behind. He did try to call me later on, probably to tell me to record some stupid construction tv show but I didn't pick up. He knows that I haven't been in my right state of mind and he goes and throws this at me? It's like he's telling me to go completely crazy. It's things like this that make me wonder if I wouldn't be better off just being a single mom.
If someone can shed some light as to what the heck he meant by that, by all means please do.
i never know what my husband means so i can't decipher yours!
but!
i think ducky's behavior means you're a fantastic mom. seriously. he's so secure that he feels safe away from you which is huge. the better job you do, the easier it is for them to leave you. could this job suck any harder?
but, here's a 'GOOD JOB!' for you :)